Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Positive body language signs

If your date is using a lot of the following signals, you can take it as a good sign that he or she is interested and having a good time. Congratulations!
  • Good eye contact: Gazing (not staring) into someone’s eyes is a good sign.
  • Leaning forward: Making the space between you two smaller and cozier signals that interest is on the way up and walls are on the way down.
  • Relaxed posture: Sitting or standing comfortably and breathing smoothly indicates that your date is open and non-defensive.
  • Palms up: Open hands indicate a warm and receptive heart.
  • Touching: If the touching is warm rather than suggestive, you’re making contact.
  • Nodding: If your date nods periodically as you speak, you’re on the same wavelength.
  • Mirroring: Unconsciously reflecting each other’s behavior — leaning forward at the same time, breathing in sync, crossing the same leg over the other at the same time, speaking in the same tone — says that you’re attuned to one another.
  • Synchronization: Simultaneous breathing, blinking, and shifting in your seat means you’re in sync.

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